The most important difference between a man and a woman isn’t genitals. It’s hardwired programming.
Unfortunately, a combination of western culture and misleading spirituality has resulted in a pandemic of cockless men who run feminine software with no masculine operating system (which contain a mans greatest gifts). And women with cocks who run masculine software with no feminine operating system (which contain a womans greatest gifts). This is the real pandemic of our time, and I’m here to inoculate you with the truth. With your consent of course.
The truth is, there are many empowered spiritual women with cocks running around claiming how feminine they are. They will tell you that they embody the ‘high feminine’ or the ‘divine feminine’ or most comical of all, that they have transcended the masculine/feminine programs altogether. They will twist these words to fit their level of development, and of course make their level the be-all, end-all level that every woman should be at. They will do mental gymnastics to rationalize how they are feminine, when their entire vibe and energy is masculine.
This growing self deception is only possible due to a lack of full understanding of what the masculine and feminine programs are. So lets break it down in simple terms:
The masculine program is a SELF-SURVIVAL program. It is tasked with acquiring value (value is whatever is considered valuable to a person - resources, status, love, sexual access, power, fun, freedom, happiness, etc), and protecting that value from harm. It does this by DOMINATING external reality by EXTERNALIZING an inner vision that would increase the value he receives. And then protecting that external reality from harm. It requires moving OUTWARD and being FIRM in what he manifests to make reality as close to his definition of PERFECT as he can. The more dominant and firm he is when externalizing his vision, the more value he can acquire from external reality.
As the most simplistic, primitive example possible, the masculine has a perfect inner vision to be well fed with a surplus of grown food and livestock. So the masculine goes out and DOMINATES reality by forcing it to change through his actions. Until he has a fenced in farm and livestock which he protects from wolves and thieves. He doesn’t try to accept reality the way it is, he tries to change it, build it, redesign it. He LEADS to something better.
The masculine is inherently selfish and narcissistic. In fact, with no feminine software integrated into the core program, it is sociopathic. The only needs that matter are his own. Only he has intrinsic value. Other people have no intrinsic value, and are only valuable to him if they help meet his needs in some way (sex, companionship, money, etc). A person (especially a woman) that only cares about self-entertainment, self-amusement, and their own ‘turn-ons’ is very unbalanced in their masculine programming. Which is exactly what empowered women with cocks focus on, and then call it divine feminine. And while they are learning to turn themselves on, every masculine man in the vicinity is getting turned off and losing their erections, because of their lack of feminine.
The feminine program is the exact opposite of the masculine. The feminine program is a DEVOTION program. It is tasked with creating (self-generating / growing)  value, and giving that value away to a reality she already considers PERFECT. She does this by SUBMITTING to external reality and changing herself to be whatever external reality requires her to be. It requires moving INWARD, and being  flexible to change herself to be perfect at being what is needed. The more flexible, the more value she can give.
As the most simplistic, primitive example possible, the feminines perfect external reality is her infant and his needs. So the feminine changes herself to accommodate her infants every need as perfectly as she can. She SUBMITS to those needs, so that the infant can thrive. She doesn’t try to change external reality, she tries to nurture it, support it, love it, accept it. She FOLLOWS by giving what reality needs of her.
The feminine is inherently selfless and loving. In fact, with no masculine software integrated into the core program, it is pathologically altruistic. Everyone’s needs matter except her own. She has no intrinsic value, but everyone else does, and their needs are more important than hers. A person that only cares about helping others and has disregard for their own health, time, energy, or other needs is very unbalanced in their feminine programming. She has no sense of self, and she becomes only what others value her as. And this describes the extreme of the typical feminine woman today. Its also not attractive to men, because men value women that value themselves. And its what empowered spiritual women with cocks have run away from as far as possible. But they went too far.
To become a truly healthy person who thrives, you need to run on your primary operating system according to your gender, and you need to balance out that operating system by integrating the opposite software. When you do, you learn to value yourself and your needs AND others and their needs. You learn to take care of your own needs AND give freely to meet other peoples needs. You learn to focus on reciprocal relationships with others who value both you and themselves. You create interdependent relationships and networks that create far more value than each person could independently for themselves. The mark of such a person is the ability to generate enormous amounts of value for themselves and others. AND to genuinely care about generating that value for yourself and for others. AND for it to be truly enjoyable and fun to do so.
When a masculine man integrates his feminine devotion software, he moves from being a tyrant to becoming a king. He extends his desire to acquire and protect value to everyone he cares about instead of just himself. He becomes a protector of the innocent. A builder of collective value for society. A leader of rightness. With his partner, he learns to devote himself to her needs (not necessarily her wants, which are very different) and lead towards a deeper more intimate relationship where she can fully let down her masculine guards in every way because she feels fully safe with him.
When a feminine woman integrates her masculine self-survival software, she moves from being a doormat to being a queen. She continues to keep her heart open and give value by offering her support, love, nurturing and whatever else they need. But she extends that to her own needs as well. She learns to do what makes her happy and brings her value. And find reciprocal relationships with people who value her as much as she values herself so that they can give her value too. Because she now believes she is worthy of being given that value. With her partner, she learns that he will only value her as much as she values herself. She lets him lead because she knows he is devoted to her. So she can focus on building him up instead of leading him and defending against him.
And for empowered spiritual women with cocks? They have already found their value. Their masculine software has been uploaded. And I’m truly happy for that. But they still need to install their feminine operating system and operate their masculine software through it. They need to learn to let go of the reigns again. Relearn to trust. Let go of their self-congratulatory and condescending narcissism. Let go of the false deluded belief that their self-interest and EXCLUSIVE obsession with their turn-ons is somehow a virtue. Its not. I've lived that way for most of my life up until I healed my core wounds that held me back. Its incredibly fun, simple, and easy. But even if you can generate all that value yourself instead of taking it from others, that self-interested way of living is not a virtue, and its definitely not feminine.
To be feminine, empowered women must move inward and HEAL. Rip off the cock that they grew over top of their wounds. And heal the wounds. When properly healed, giving to others and meeting their needs goes from being a tiresome burden, to being a joyful delight. It becomes immensely enjoyable and energizing to give value to others. The giving is no longer to make up for the perceived deficiency in their value. Its no longer to get approval or avoid disapproval (either from others, or themselves). Its done simply because its so enjoyable to do it, and brings more joy than focusing (exclusively) on themselves and their turn-ons. The act of giving BECOMES the greatest turn-on.
Only then can a woman give her greatest gifts to the world through her support, nurturing, love, and radiance. And the world needs that now more than ever.
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