Mindset Shift For MEN - You Are A LEADER, And Your Leadership Is Your GIFT To A Woman!

A devoted masculine man does not 'chase' or ‘pursue’ a woman. These are just fancy words for 'follow'. Only an emasculated man follows a woman, and if you are going to do that, you may as well put on your covid mask and other slave apparel when you first meet. That way she knows you have no balls right from the start and you can save her a lot of time.

A man who follows might be making all the calls and making all the plans, so it might look like he is leading on the surface. But energetically, he is not. Energetically, he is trying to get something from her. Her attention, approval, time, sex. So she has all of the power in the interaction. Think of the power dynamic in the same way as when a boy initiates plans with his mommy to get a brand new toy. Despite the boy setting up the plans, its clear that its the mother who has the power, she has what he wants, and its in her power to give it to him... or not! So she is the real leader. Not him.

Deep down the follower man perceives that the woman has more value to give him than he has to give her. This means he doesn’t perceive himself as good enough as he is. As worthy enough. He has to chase her energetically to prove that he is worthy. And when you chase something, it runs away. You just have to hope that you can chase hard enough to get it. What a terrible, disempowering mindset to have as a man!

So is the solution to wait around for the woman to chase you? Make her do all the initiating and setting up plans so that you can maintain all the power? NO! This can certainly get results (most often women with low self worth who feel that you are a gift worth chasing). But it is putting a huge burden on a woman. You are stressing her out by making her take all the risk of rejection and making her expend all of the effort setting up plans. Its not that a woman is incapable of initiating and making decisions and risking rejection. Its that doing so would require her to operate from her masculine programming. And that is draining, unfun, and unnatural for a woman. Even if she is good at it.

But do you know who finds these things extremely energizing, fun, and natural? A devoted masculine man! A devoted masculine man is doing all of the things a chasing man is doing. He is setting up plans. Making decisions. Taking the risks. But when he does these things, he is LEADING. Its leading even though the actions are very similar, because the mindset is completely different. He isn’t setting up plans with mommy to get a new toy and other gifts from her. He is energetically trying to GIVE a woman a gift by setting up plans with her. He IS the gift. And his leadership is one of the ways he gives her that gift.

A devoted masculine man knows he’s worthy of any woman no matter what he does. So he feels no need to try to manage how much power he has in the interaction relative to hers. He isn’t even thinking about these silly power dynamics anymore. Such games are for boys who like to play dressup in covid masks. He doesn’t care. What he cares about is devoting himself to a woman through his leadership. That is his best gift he has to give her. And he loves giving her his gifts.

So he CHOOSES to take on that responsibility as a leader. He CHOOSES to unburden her of making decisions. He CHOOSES to make decisions that are in her best interest. He CHOOSES to ask for and listen to her feelings and opinions when necessary so he can make more informed decisions.

Does he choose these things because hes trying to get something from her or make up for a deficiency in self worth? Nope! Its just a no-strings attached GIFT! He increasingly CHOOSES to give her that gift because she becomes increasingly special to him. And he gives it to her so that she feels increasingly respected, comfortable, happy, energized, safe, and LOVED.

When is it time to start giving a woman the gift of your leadership?

The second you want to meet her!

You give her that gift by going up and saying ‘hey’.

Starting a conversation

Asking for her number.

Setting up the date.

Walking her around.

Leading her home.

Making the first move. And second and third. You make ALL the moves.

And you set up ALL the dates.

You tell her where this is heading (and where it's not).

And when it's time to be exclusive.

And move in together.

And get married.

And have kids.

And you DONT stop leading just because you became exclusive, or are living together, or are married, or have kids. Your leadership only becomes MORE important to give, not less.

You lead any conflicts towards resolution.

You lead the budget towards positive cash flow.

You lead sex towards pleasure and climax.

You lead the health and educational choices of your kids.

And you lead your families safety. You decide when it's time to buy some guns, head off into the woods, and build an apocalypse home because shit is about to hit the fan.

All of that, ALL of that, is the responsibility a devoted masculine man chooses. Those are his gifts to give, so make them the best gifts they can be. For as long as you are together. Because the devoted masculine man doesn’t stop giving those gifts until his woman is either no longer his woman anymore, or when he is DEAD!

And not a second before.

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